Release

A process for removing inhibiting factors and refining self‑fulfillment

Emotions such as - sadness, gloom, lack of purpose in action and loneliness, are not necessarily signs of imbalance, the result of wrongdoing, an unhealthy relationship, or anything perceived as a “problem.”

These emotions are a call to refine the path of self‑fulfillment and an inner longing for a sense of meaning.

An experience a partial self‑fulfillment, a feeling of shortage and an absence of motivation lead to a search for a new occupation, a new living place, new romantic or social connections, or even changes in physical appearance and functioning.

External changes do not provide the fulfillment of desires such as an enjoyable and enriching relationship, occupation that expresses one’s potential fulfillment, or a social experience that contributes to joyful self‑discovery.

External changes alone cannot remove factors that inhibit self‑fulfillment unless a deep process takes place - one aimed at decoding inner pain that points toward fuller self‑realization.

Pain may lead to actions that do not fulfill the intention they were meant to achieve. Pain can undermine relationships and disrupt self‑fulfillment.

Inner work can transform pain from a hindering force into guidance toward a path of full self‑realization and the ability to maintain healthy and successful relationships.

Identifying the source of pain is an important stage in a personal journey that may offer benefits such as:

The ability to recognize actions driven by pain or those arising from conscious choice.
Releasing low self‑esteem, judgment, criticism, or the belief that something is broken or hopeless.
Discovering a clearer path to self‑realization.

The pain in question is actually a fear of re‑experiencing pain that was felt during the first stage of life.

In the first years of life (up to age 6-7), the child still sees souls, past lives, and what lies beyond the limitations of physical reality. During this stage, the child’s cognitive abilities develop, and they begin to see that their parents are not perfect, and that the world they entered is not as whole as the world they came from - the infinite dimension, the world of souls.

The gaps between the parents’ actions for their soul’s purpose and their real‑life relationship and the ideal way they could have, allegedly, behaved, had they acted according to the soul’s desires, are the source of the pain.

This gap is valuable information, meant to refine the path of self‑fulfillment. This information is stored in the psyche and signals, through painful emotions, that it has not yet been decoded.

Fear of experiencing a similar pain again - a pain that has not yet been decoded - creates avoidance of situations where pain is possible.

An action driven by fear, creates a limitation that inhibits self‑fulfillment and a full sense of meaning.

Fear activates the pain and leads to childish behavior that attempts to avoid actions driven by fear, lacks the tools and experience of an adult and turns into the behavior of the child at the age when the pain was formed.

Every person has a unique pain. Although pains may seem to be similar, each one is distinct and carries its own message.

Pain is an important part of the contraction the soul undergoes when transitioning from the infinite to a reality in which it wishes to experience tangibility, a process that requires narrowing all possibilities into one unique possibility for each soul in each lifetime.

Anyone wishing to understand the path of self‑fulfillment hidden within their pain should ask:
“How does this pain serve me?”

Referring to pain as something to “solve”, “remove” or “avoid”, may create a gap between intentions and actions, a gap that leads to impaired functioning in various areas of life.

Pain seeks to reveal the path of self‑fulfillment it points toward. Situations in which a person loses control and is driven by pain (such as verbal expression, actions, avoidance of actions, disengaged behavior, non-present actions or misaligned with intentions) reveal the painful issue and allow it to be addressed.

Avoiding situations that trigger fear of familiar pain, does not heal or eliminate it.

Pain signals that essential information within it has not yet been decoded through emotions such as gloom, lack of desire and motivation to take action, sleepiness, a desire to rest endlessly, anger over small tasks not done perfectly, sadness, crying, or physical pains not caused by illness - such as stomachaches, headaches, or general body aches.

Actions driven by fear of pain and attempts to avoid, remove, or eliminate it, may lead to behaviors that contradict one’s intentions, undermine relationships, and disrupt self‑fulfillment.

Inner work to discover the path of self‑fulfillment indicated by the pain, can transform pain from a hindering force into guidance toward a road of full self‑realization, the ability to maintain healthy and successful relationships and the creation of ideas that award an experience of meaning and self-fulfillment.

Identifying the source of pain and decoding its message, are steps that can greatly contribute to fulfillment of the soul’s desires and experiencing self‑realization.

Unresolved pain leads to seeking relief through:

Imaginary filling of the sense of lack through habits and addictions to drugs, alcohol, or medications that dull emotions.
Intense physical activity intended to produce hormones that change the emotion and override unwanted feelings.
Harmful behavior that creates a false sense of balance between one’s own pain and causing pain to others.
Addictions that enable escape such as excessive work, excessive sex, excessive study, overeating, smoking, and more.

The procedure of decoding the guidance within the pain

It may lead to releasing factors that inhibit self‑fulfillment, such as low self‑esteem, judgment, criticism, or the belief that something is broken or hopeless.

It may also bring a sense of balance and ease, joy and happiness, discovering an area through which one can grow by revealing a clearer personal path, and improved health and well‑being.

The Release Process

Stage One

A personal conversation to uncover limiting beliefs formed by parental influence.
Guidance for daily practice.

Stage Two

Daily practice using guided imagery (about 5 minutes per day)
Duration - one to three months
2-4 sessions to decode limiting situations and beliefs.

Stage Three

Daily practice - adapted using guided imagery (about 5 minutes per day)
Duration - one to three months
2-4 sessions to refine self‑fulfillment.

Final Stage

Daily practice - Personalized practices for strengthening and empowerment (about 5 minutes per day)
Duration - one to three months
2-4 sessions to review situations and improve self‑fulfillment in various areas of life.